Kristen Stewart Shares the Marriage Lesson With Dylan Meyer That Changed Everything
Kristen Stewart says tying the knot with screenwriter Dylan Meyer at an intimate Los Angeles ceremony in April has reshaped her outlook — and in a candid new interview, she reveals the biggest lesson marriage has taught her so far.
Kristen Stewart quietly got married in April, and now she is actually talking about how it changed her day-to-day. In a new Esquire interview, the Twilight alum lays out what marrying screenwriter Dylan Meyer did to her brain, her routine, and yes, her timeline for kids.
Marriage as a reset button
Stewart, 35, says the small Los Angeles ceremony back in April didn’t just make it official — it grounded her. She describes feeling more anchored, less like she is drifting solo, and way more intentional about who gets a spot in her inner circle.
"It is so nice to have a family. It is so nice to not be an unmoored individual. Dylan came into my life, and I immediately thought it is so important to handpick and curate the people who surround you."
The Dylan factor
Meyer, 38, is apparently a human BS detector in the best way. Stewart jokes that she leans toward being a people-pleaser, while her wife has a zero-tolerance policy for nonsense. That balance works: Stewart appreciates having someone who keeps her honest and reminds her, as she puts it, that "your life is in your hands."
Yes, she still needs alone time
Even with the newlywed glow, Stewart guards a sliver of solitude. She says she steals an hour or two in the morning before Meyer wakes up — a reset she needs because, in her words, she is an Aries and usually surrounded by people. The quiet time is her way of not getting lost in the mix.
Domestic rituals, emphasis on cozy
The couple has a house routine that sounds like a warm blanket: Stewart reads classic novels out loud to Meyer and their pets. Their current rotation includes:
- East of Eden
- Wuthering Heights
- The Heart Is a Lonely Hunter (which she calls a salve)
What is next
She also does not dance around it: starting a family is on her mind, and soon. No big reveal beyond that, just a clear signal she is ready for the next chapter.
Short version: new marriage, new perspective, same Kristen — just with more stability, some early-morning alone time, and a very specific, very charming book club at home.